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——导言——
有时候会把幻想当成现实，然后告诉别人⾃己的幻想，但因为事实不存在，所以其他人认为我们在说谎。
臆想出来更优秀的⾃己，将幻想延伸成事实，⽤谎言暗示⾃己，在谎言下躲着⾃卑孤独的⾃己。
⾯对朋友/家人/爱人，我们总是或多或少撒了谎，把不好的⾃己，渺⼩的⾃⼰，不积极的自己掩饰成⼤家想成为的样⼦。例如：认识新的朋友，交谈中会说⾃己对美食旅⾏颇有研究，可其实只是按照攻略人云亦云；和爸妈说今天在学校的⽂艺演出中⾃己表现优秀，其实⽼师只是夸了你一句表现积极；和爱⼈说，最浪漫的事是想和你去海边看日落，可仅仅只是为了哄对⽅开心，其实只想在酒店呆着。
这些谎⾔本身只是为了博取关注，只是为了让⾃己更舒适，我们不去讨论谎⾔本身的意义是否正向，不去评判说谎者的价值观取向，仅仅只是放⼤这种情绪状态，应不应该这么做，完全取决于个⼈。
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